What does self-care and self-compassion mean to you? How are they different? How are they the same?
Inspired by conversations of late, I am intrigued by the differences between SELF-CARE and SELF-COMPASSION.
In health care, self care is any necessary human regulatory function which is under individual control, deliberate and self-initiated. [source]
Self-compassion is extending compassion to one’s self in instances of perceived inadequacy, failure, or general suffering. Kristin Neff has defined self-compassion as being composed of three main components – self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness. [source]
CARE implies an action, a verb: effort made to do something correctly, safely, or without causing damage, things that are done to keep someone healthy, safe, etc., things that are done to keep something in good condition…
Taking good care of yourself means the people in your life receive the best of you rather than what is left of you. ― Lucille Zimmerman
COMPASSION implies a noun: pity, sympathy, empathy, fellow feeling, care, concern, solicitude, sensitivity, warmth, love, tenderness, mercy, leniency, tolerance, kindness, humanity, charity…
Don’t ever allow yourself to forget how incredibly special you are, even for a single second. Without you, the world would not be as magnificent. Let yourself remember to love again, starting with you loving you. ― Miya Yamanouchi
Self-care implies a to-do. That can trigger. Exhaust.
Self-compassion is immediate.
But hey, both important.
I am getting better at self-compassion. Self-care will take some more work. In my own time. In that statement lies self-compassion- take your time.
So I will continue to practice self-compassion first (immediate), then self-care (commitment).
This post is dedicated to my self-care/compassion soul-sisters:
Laura Mack, Patti Henderson, Beverley Pomeroy, Cher Thorsen, Maud Kerzendörfer, Cat Webb and Emma Varley…
and to Frida Kahlo.
We could also say that this month is all about love; transforming fear into power through love, transforming doubt into confidence through love, transforming old emotional wounds into great wisdom through love. It is an opportunity for us all to learn our lessons through the tough love of spirit and to finally begin to love and cherish ourselves deeply and unconditionally… Make sure this month to take time for yourself in the area of self-care. How can you best support your own priorities? How can you take better care of yourself as your own most valuable possession? Remember to have compassion and forgiveness and to be in love with yourself. – July 2016 Forecast, The Power Path